不乱于心 不困于情....
The Cinderella Contract
Love is not being with someone who has the right ''qualifications''. Love is being with someone who is imperfect but you love them anyway.
Wednesday, February 27, 2013
Monday, February 25, 2013
Sunday, February 24, 2013
【天蝎座】
【天蝎座】是十二星座里面唯一一个关于爱情的星座；
【天蝎座】是唯一能够读心的星座；
【天蝎座】是唯一能够和水瓶聊天的星座；
【天蝎座】是唯一能够毁掉狮子的星座；
【天蝎座】是唯一能够让双子疯狂的星座；
【天蝎座】是唯一知道什么是构成这个世界大大小小矛盾的内容的星座
【天蝎座】是唯一能够读心的星座；
【天蝎座】是唯一能够和水瓶聊天的星座；
【天蝎座】是唯一能够毁掉狮子的星座；
【天蝎座】是唯一能够让双子疯狂的星座；
【天蝎座】是唯一知道什么是构成这个世界大大小小矛盾的内容的星座
Saturday, February 23, 2013
《手机》
忘了从什么时候，开始喜欢一个人
躺在床上对着手机按键；
忘了从什么时候，
我们开始用手机更新心情；
忘了从什么时候，转发微博也变成了一种习惯。原来手机可以填补心里的那份空虚，
寂寞的人，总离不开手机。
手机里藏着你多少秘密呢？
躺在床上对着手机按键；
忘了从什么时候，
我们开始用手机更新心情；
忘了从什么时候，转发微博也变成了一种习惯。原来手机可以填补心里的那份空虚，
寂寞的人，总离不开手机。
手机里藏着你多少秘密呢？
Thursday, February 21, 2013
Feeling kind of emotion
Feeling kind of emotion after this afternoon seeing one of my client Mrs Schooling losing so much weigh due to cancer as she a very sweet understand and caring lady but why must this happen to a kind lady like her...and she remember my name after nearly a year ~ God pls make her recover and make my mommy healthy and long life with my life cos i'm a devil...... — at Home Of Niqi.
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Monday, February 18, 2013
“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.
So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. If you are not in a relationship now, remember this for the second (or third) time around. It's never too late.
If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. ♥
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.
So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. If you are not in a relationship now, remember this for the second (or third) time around. It's never too late.
If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. ♥
Sunday, February 17, 2013
別讓心太累！
再好的東西也有失去的一天， 再深的記憶也有淡忘的一天，
再愛的人也有遠走的一天， 再美的夢也有驚醒的一天。
該放棄的決不挽留，該珍惜的決不放手。 如果，
不幸福， 如果，不快樂，就請放手吧；
如果，捨不得， 如果，放不下，就請珍惜吧。
成長的修煉讓我們有了很多的感悟， 最重要的是，
別讓心太累！
你只是他的一个选择，不是他的唯一。
若和别人交往，你要彻底地知道，
你只是他的一个选择，不是他的唯一。
不要轻易去依赖一个人，它会成为你的习惯，
当分别来临，你失去的不是某个人，
而是你精神的拐杖。无论何时何地，
都要学会独立行走，它会让你走得更坦然些。
你只是他的一个选择，不是他的唯一。
不要轻易去依赖一个人，它会成为你的习惯，
当分别来临，你失去的不是某个人，
而是你精神的拐杖。无论何时何地，
都要学会独立行走，它会让你走得更坦然些。
郑源 陶钰玉《你是我的唯一》原版MV 高清版（流畅）
女:抱着我去哪里哪里
男:抱着你去天涯海角
女:亲爱的你是我唯一
男:我会努力爱着你
女:抱着我不离不弃
男:亲爱的没有问题
女:如果有一天我老去
合:而你(我)在我(你)心中会越来越美丽
男:每天清晨都会给你写一封信
告诉你我爱着你
每一天的夜里我都无法入眠
因为没有你
女:每天清晨都会收到你的信
心里好甜蜜
有这样一个男人对我如此用心
我愿意嫁给你
男:我们的缘分是上天注定的
我们的爱情是我们经营的
女：给我一个拥抱瞬间融化我
喜欢你这样宠着我
女:抱着我去哪里哪里
男:抱着你去天涯海角
女:亲爱的你是我唯一
男:我会努力爱着你
女:抱着我不离不弃
男:亲爱的没有问题
女:如果有一天我老去
合:而你(我)在我(你)心中会越来越美丽
每一天的夜里我都无法入眠
男:每天清晨都会给你写一封信
告诉你我爱着你
因为没有你
女:每天清晨都会收到你的信
心里好甜蜜
有这样一个男人对我如此用心
我愿意嫁给你
男:我们的缘分是上天注定的
我们的爱情是我们经营的
女：给我一个拥抱瞬间融化我
喜欢你这样宠着我
女:抱着我去哪里哪里
男:抱着你去天涯海角
女:亲爱的你是我唯一
男:我会努力爱着你
女:抱着我不离不弃
男:亲爱的没有问题
女:如果有一天我老去
合:而你(我)在我(你)心中会越来越美丽
女:抱着我去哪里哪里
男:抱着你去天涯海角
女:亲爱的你是我唯一
男:我会努力爱着你
女:抱着我不离不弃
男:亲爱的没有问题
女:如果有一天我老去
合:而你(我)在我(你)心中会越来越美丽
合:而你(我)在我(你)心中会越来越美丽
Saturday, February 16, 2013
天蝎座属于“其爱越深，其言越寡”的那种.
天蝎座属于“其爱越深，
其言越寡”的那种，
有太多太多的话想说但更期望
对方能自己发现，有太多太多的
东西想解释却也不屑于解释，
被误会也好还是如何，
总期待着对方发现真相的那天，
可往往太多太多的事情都是
在分手以后感情殆尽对方才会发现，
这就是天蝎座的可悲，
永远不能被自己深爱着的人珍惜。
其言越寡”的那种，
有太多太多的话想说但更期望
对方能自己发现，有太多太多的
东西想解释却也不屑于解释，
被误会也好还是如何，
总期待着对方发现真相的那天，
可往往太多太多的事情都是
在分手以后感情殆尽对方才会发现，
这就是天蝎座的可悲，
永远不能被自己深爱着的人珍惜。
Friday, February 15, 2013
Thursday, February 14, 2013
这是爱情。
刚开始，他什么都不介意，
不介意你的过去，
不介意你的坏脾气。
然后有一天，他开始介意...
他曾经说过不介意，
那一刻，你感动得抱着
他流泪。谁知道，时日过去，
他忘记了自己所说的一切。
人在得不到的时候，
什么都可以不介意。
得到之后，什么都有点介意。
不介意你的过去，
不介意你的坏脾气。
然后有一天，他开始介意...
他曾经说过不介意，
那一刻，你感动得抱着
他流泪。谁知道，时日过去，
他忘记了自己所说的一切。
人在得不到的时候，
什么都可以不介意。
得到之后，什么都有点介意。
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
Monday, February 11, 2013
Sunday, February 10, 2013
Saturday, February 09, 2013
你知道我對你的好.avi
明靜的天空如此的飄逸 回憶裡海風輕透過身體 那時的我像個孩子 躲在你的懷抱裡 讓我感受到了愛的甜蜜 如今卻看不清海的邊際 我站在海的一端無能為力 只能傾聽海的呼吸 好想緊緊抱住你 從此再也不願讓你離去 你知道 我對你的好 沒有任何的需要 只願你能感受到那一刻的擁抱 你可知道 愛為你飄渺 從此不停的圍繞 就算黑夜將它撕掉 我也願意為你尋找 如今卻看不清海的邊際 我站在海的一端無能為力 只能傾聽海的呼吸 好想緊緊抱住你 從此再也不願讓你離去 你知道 我對你的好 沒有任何的需要 只願你能感受到那一刻的擁抱 你可知道 愛為你飄渺 從此不停的圍繞 就算黑夜將它撕掉 我也願意為你尋找 時間衝淡一切 不再有愛的記憶 曾經走過的一段路 足以證明我 愛你 你知道 我對你的好 沒有任何的需要 只願你能感受到那一刻的擁抱 你可知道 愛為你飄渺 從此不停的圍繞 就算黑夜將它撕掉 我也願意為你尋找 就算黑夜將它撕掉 我也願意為你尋找
Friday, February 08, 2013
Thursday, February 07, 2013
[JOY RICH] [新歌] 衛蘭(Janice) - 只要我們還有心
沒錯你大概心淡 就像容忍中的我 寧願孤單得更悠閒
誰話過寬恕見諒能比談情容易 誰沒有聽過越愛越難
事實誰人沒曾經 曾逃避過感情 隨時犯錯
隨處有陰影 還未到厭倦致死 你我還好 誰人若要怨
怨太易得到 難道有缺憾錯失 靠放棄彌補 狠心說話
無謂說得太早 只需要我們還有心 心灰過眼前也有燈
燈熄了何妨睡到醒 人清醒了愛情更逼真 手分了我們還有手
鬆開過再重頭拉近 別記得吵架有原因 但覺得擁抱你仍很吸引
這樣容易便離開 留下定會艱難 然而未信
忘記更簡單 難道已見面太多 寧願對我回憶 為何害怕錯
錯過後珍惜 還未到信命那刻 也會有奇蹟 可否當做
其實從未認識 只需要我們還有心 心灰過眼前也有燈
燈熄了何妨睡到醒 人清醒了愛情更逼真 手牽過偶然曾鬆手
鬆開過再重頭拉近 別記得吵架有原因 但覺得擁抱你仍很吸引
只需要我們還有心 心死過以後會再生 多少對情人在斗爭
何必只看眼前說一生 手牽過偶然曾鬆手 鬆開過再重頭拉近
別記得吵架有原因 但記得擁抱有餘溫 若覺得相愛有原因
便覺得這個我始終吸引
[Demo] 藍又時 - 讓心跳停了
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Wednesday, February 06, 2013
幸福、就是找到一个温暖的人过一辈子 ♥
幸福，就是找一个温暖的人过一辈子 ♥
今天、我突然很想告诉世界上所有的人，
珍惜吧！珍惜爱你的人，珍惜在你身边一直保护
你，一直把你当宝贝的人。那个人真的很珍贵。
他在你身边的时候，你并不知道你真的那么
爱他，甚至以为自己得到的爱护都是理所应当的，
很少意识到他的重要. . .
珍惜吧！珍惜爱你的人，珍惜在你身边一直保护
你，一直把你当宝贝的人。那个人真的很珍贵。
他在你身边的时候，你并不知道你真的那么
爱他，甚至以为自己得到的爱护都是理所应当的，
很少意识到他的重要. . .
有时候和他任性和他发脾气，有时候会觉得疲倦，
有时候会觉得缺少激情. . . ♥
有时候会觉得缺少激情. . . ♥
但当你发现再没有他在你身边唠叨你、没有人管你、
没有人在乎你的病痛时，突然才发现，
失去了，那个自己其实一直最爱的人 ♥
没有人在乎你的病痛时，突然才发现，
失去了，那个自己其实一直最爱的人 ♥
爱是一场长久的拉锯战，从相识到相知、
然后是相恋的一路上，就摆下一场战线很长的拉锯
战。两个20年甚至更长时间毫无交集的人在一起，
难免会争吵，会有分歧。我们不是一体
的，只是因为爱而在一起. . . ♥
然后是相恋的一路上，就摆下一场战线很长的拉锯
战。两个20年甚至更长时间毫无交集的人在一起，
难免会争吵，会有分歧。我们不是一体
的，只是因为爱而在一起. . . ♥
爱其实并不能就解决了所有的问题。因为个性都太强了，
更爱的其实是自己 ♥ 所以，总是争
执个不停，吵个不停 ♥ 总是在和对方吵闹之后，
才发现到自己的任性行为，却又免不了下
一次的任性 ♥
更爱的其实是自己 ♥ 所以，总是争
执个不停，吵个不停 ♥ 总是在和对方吵闹之后，
才发现到自己的任性行为，却又免不了下
一次的任性 ♥
如果这个世界上有卖后悔药，我相信每个人都希望拥有，
就可以在每次吵架、冷战之后吃上
一颗药，就全部忘掉，一切把所有的事重新开始 ♥
就可以在每次吵架、冷战之后吃上
一颗药，就全部忘掉，一切把所有的事重新开始 ♥
真可惜，世上却没有卖这种药. . . 而且就算有，
总吃后悔药也会产生抗药性、每一次的争吵留
下一点伤害，积少成多，就会成为你的负担和他的烦恼. . .
谁都不会把一次小小的争吵记在心
上，但是两次三次呢？很多次呢？所有的争吵到最后都化为委屈，
总有一日，还是会爆发 ♥
总吃后悔药也会产生抗药性、每一次的争吵留
下一点伤害，积少成多，就会成为你的负担和他的烦恼. . .
谁都不会把一次小小的争吵记在心
上，但是两次三次呢？很多次呢？所有的争吵到最后都化为委屈，
总有一日，还是会爆发 ♥
我们每个人都爱过，相信都是很认真的. . . ♥
也许有的失去了很久，但是至今想起，还是会
有点隐隐作痛的感觉吧 ♥
也许有的失去了很久，但是至今想起，还是会
有点隐隐作痛的感觉吧 ♥
因为曾经他留给你的和他最后从你身边带走的竟然一样的多，
出奇的公平。并没有谁欠谁，
只是当初都不知道去学会珍惜 ♥ 也许会说，上次是我没珍惜，
这一次我一定做到最好，一定
好好去珍惜你！但是要怎样去珍惜？
出奇的公平。并没有谁欠谁，
只是当初都不知道去学会珍惜 ♥ 也许会说，上次是我没珍惜，
这一次我一定做到最好，一定
好好去珍惜你！但是要怎样去珍惜？
你的爱人，你要用心的去体会，去明白他的心. . .
去思考他到底需要的是什么. . . ♥ 在你思考
他需要什么的时候，你已经得到了他的尊重 ♥ 你的爱人，
你要用心去保护，不要因为别人比
你强或者是个大男人，就以为你保护不了她. . .
你的爱比任何鼓励都要好，你可以保护你爱的
人 ♥
去思考他到底需要的是什么. . . ♥ 在你思考
他需要什么的时候，你已经得到了他的尊重 ♥ 你的爱人，
你要用心去保护，不要因为别人比
你强或者是个大男人，就以为你保护不了她. . .
你的爱比任何鼓励都要好，你可以保护你爱的
人 ♥
你的爱人，你要用心的去珍惜她，他为你做的一点一滴，
不仅仅要感谢他，还要记在心里 . . .
常常的去想想他。能为了爱你而放下面子去忍耐你的坏脾气，
去习惯你和他完全不一样的习
惯，完全不一样的性格、 去照顾你爱护你的时间和规律，
都是他因为爱所付出的 ♥
不仅仅要感谢他，还要记在心里 . . .
常常的去想想他。能为了爱你而放下面子去忍耐你的坏脾气，
去习惯你和他完全不一样的习
惯，完全不一样的性格、 去照顾你爱护你的时间和规律，
都是他因为爱所付出的 ♥
在你发脾气之前，请先吸气，深呼吸5次，然后再长长的吐气5次。
然后再说话 . . . ♥ 当你对
他有意见或有问题的时候，不妨信息告诉他，相信在信息的过程中，
自己已经先平和了、本
来郁闷的心情已经得到了缓解 ♥
有时候可能写完信自己就已经不再生气了、
因为写信需要想，先就让你平静了。这样用信来沟通，
少了言语的冲突，多了一些沟通，会让你们之间的
问题用最理智的方式得到解决，再不会以争吵或冷战来代替 ♥
然后再说话 . . . ♥ 当你对
他有意见或有问题的时候，不妨信息告诉他，相信在信息的过程中，
自己已经先平和了、本
来郁闷的心情已经得到了缓解 ♥
有时候可能写完信自己就已经不再生气了、
因为写信需要想，先就让你平静了。这样用信来沟通，
少了言语的冲突，多了一些沟通，会让你们之间的
问题用最理智的方式得到解决，再不会以争吵或冷战来代替 ♥
在你受到任何委屈的时候不妨直接告诉他你的想法，
让他知道你真实的想法、你其实想这样
做，你其实需要他应该怎样去做 ♥ 不要总让他猜你的心思，
猜你的想法 ♥ 因为你的心思和你
的想法其实真的很难猜. . . 并不是所有爱的人之间都有
那种互通的第六感 ♥ 如果他猜不到你的
心思也不要生气，因为其实你也不知道他猜你的心思用了
多长的时间和浪费了多少的脑细胞 ♥
让他知道你真实的想法、你其实想这样
做，你其实需要他应该怎样去做 ♥ 不要总让他猜你的心思，
猜你的想法 ♥ 因为你的心思和你
的想法其实真的很难猜. . . 并不是所有爱的人之间都有
那种互通的第六感 ♥ 如果他猜不到你的
心思也不要生气，因为其实你也不知道他猜你的心思用了
多长的时间和浪费了多少的脑细胞 ♥
你难过的时候不妨先把你的心事告诉他，也许他也没有什么好办法，
但起码你爱的人一定会
给你安慰 ♥ 有时候他会很直接的告诉你错了，
也不要因为这样而生气、他是为了你好，他只
是站在旁观的角度上给你一个好的指导，等你冷静下来后也许
你会觉得他的办法不错，就算
不可行也要体谅他的心思. . . . . 反过来，发现他有些不对的时候就要关心她，
注意他的眉头，
去注意他的心情。去理解他，就算理解不了也试图去了解吧 ♥
但起码你爱的人一定会
给你安慰 ♥ 有时候他会很直接的告诉你错了，
也不要因为这样而生气、他是为了你好，他只
是站在旁观的角度上给你一个好的指导，等你冷静下来后也许
你会觉得他的办法不错，就算
不可行也要体谅他的心思. . . . . 反过来，发现他有些不对的时候就要关心她，
注意他的眉头，
去注意他的心情。去理解他，就算理解不了也试图去了解吧 ♥
在你下决定前不妨告诉他你的决定，这是尊重他的表现。
可能他会不赞同，但肯定会为了你
的尊重而欣慰. . . 如果要是正好也赞同，恭喜你，
又将你们的幸福推进了一些。而当他做决定
的时候，不要过多的干扰，给他多一点的空间 ♥ 相信我，
虽然你们相爱着，但还是完整的个
体，所以让他自己去决定吧. . .就算你不赞同，
也不要在他一脸兴奋的时候告诉他，鼓励他
吧！之后再委婉的给他一些意见.. . . .
在面临苦难的时候不要小看你的爱人的能力，也不要因
为自己的郁闷而迁罪于他. . . ♥
可能他会不赞同，但肯定会为了你
的尊重而欣慰. . . 如果要是正好也赞同，恭喜你，
又将你们的幸福推进了一些。而当他做决定
的时候，不要过多的干扰，给他多一点的空间 ♥ 相信我，
虽然你们相爱着，但还是完整的个
体，所以让他自己去决定吧. . .就算你不赞同，
也不要在他一脸兴奋的时候告诉他，鼓励他
吧！之后再委婉的给他一些意见.. . . .
在面临苦难的时候不要小看你的爱人的能力，也不要因
为自己的郁闷而迁罪于他. . . ♥
其实他也不容易，他和你一样面临着困难，
他还要照顾你的想法，其实他更难. . . ♥ 跟他一
起努力下去吧，相信你们一起什么都能尽快去解决 ♥
更不要独自去面对困难，因为没有人希
望自己的爱人自己去单独面对艰难，可以一起度过艰难与一起
享受幸福是一样的重要，不管
面对什么，相信要两个人在一起、就会做到 ♥
他还要照顾你的想法，其实他更难. . . ♥ 跟他一
起努力下去吧，相信你们一起什么都能尽快去解决 ♥
更不要独自去面对困难，因为没有人希
望自己的爱人自己去单独面对艰难，可以一起度过艰难与一起
享受幸福是一样的重要，不管
面对什么，相信要两个人在一起、就会做到 ♥
在你觉得你们的爱没有激情的时候，不妨先检讨一下自己，
你为了这爱情做了什么？现在的
乏味是不是也有你的原因？你有多久没有送他小礼物了？
你有多久没有不为任何原因的亲他
一下了？你有多久没有和他聊天、谈心了？你有多久没有
请他去吃饭或者看电影了？不要总
觉得他不够爱你，不要总觉得她没有以前那么细心，
爱也会成熟，爱也会长大，常在那不会
成熟不会长大的爱、别人也会腻、
而且一成不变的爱情根本不存在. . .
不要太计较，不要总是去算计 ♥
你为了这爱情做了什么？现在的
乏味是不是也有你的原因？你有多久没有送他小礼物了？
你有多久没有不为任何原因的亲他
一下了？你有多久没有和他聊天、谈心了？你有多久没有
请他去吃饭或者看电影了？不要总
觉得他不够爱你，不要总觉得她没有以前那么细心，
爱也会成熟，爱也会长大，常在那不会
成熟不会长大的爱、别人也会腻、
而且一成不变的爱情根本不存在. . .
不要太计较，不要总是去算计 ♥
在你面临诱惑的时候不妨先静下来想想你和他的从前。
曾经的他也对你充满的诱惑和吸引力. .
. 只不过现在激情退去了。任何人都不能永远的激情下去，
任何感情都不能一直轰烈下去 ♥
你现在面对的诱惑总有一天也会归为平静。
就像你和现在的爱人一样. . . 而且，如果是你的爱
人面临这样的诱惑，你希望他会怎样做？
就照你希望他做的去做自己吧、
一切归于顺其自然 ♥
曾经的他也对你充满的诱惑和吸引力. .
. 只不过现在激情退去了。任何人都不能永远的激情下去，
任何感情都不能一直轰烈下去 ♥
你现在面对的诱惑总有一天也会归为平静。
就像你和现在的爱人一样. . . 而且，如果是你的爱
人面临这样的诱惑，你希望他会怎样做？
就照你希望他做的去做自己吧、
一切归于顺其自然 ♥
记得，凡事先要深呼吸，不要急，不要激动 ♥
两个人的事情，两个人就好好的去处理 ♥
两个人的事情，两个人就好好的去处理 ♥
我们出生到现在，其实从没真正学过怎样去爱，
都是一点一滴的从现实和经验体会着爱的意
义，我写这些真的不是为了标榜自己. . .
其实我也是个不懂爱的女孩 ，我也是从恋爱里理解出
来的一点一滴 ♥
都是一点一滴的从现实和经验体会着爱的意
义，我写这些真的不是为了标榜自己. . .
其实我也是个不懂爱的女孩 ，我也是从恋爱里理解出
来的一点一滴 ♥
其实我是想告诉现在身边有着幸福并且在幸福着的兄弟姐妹们，
珍惜、保护、心疼和爱护你
现在爱这你的爱人 ♥
珍惜、保护、心疼和爱护你
现在爱这你的爱人 ♥
在你还没有失去他之前、也告诉那些正在寻找
自己的幸福并且走在寻找路上的兄弟姐妹们，
找到之后，一定要珍惜、保护、心疼你的爱人，
过一些没有人有的幸福 ♥
自己的幸福并且走在寻找路上的兄弟姐妹们，
找到之后，一定要珍惜、保护、心疼你的爱人，
过一些没有人有的幸福 ♥
幸福，就是找一个温暖的人过一辈子. . . .
我真心的希望每个人都拥有自己的幸福！ ♥
我真心的希望每个人都拥有自己的幸福！ ♥
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